Wednesday, June 27, 2007

Take Off His Shoes!!!!!!!!!!!Well, maybe in 1950 !!!

(This was passed on to me as a "genuine extract from a 1950 Home Economics Book". It may have been changed a little, but it does reflect the general feeling of the time.)

Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready on time for his return from work. This is a way of letting him know that you have been thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospect of a good meal (especially his favorite dish) is part of the warm welcome needed.

Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you will be refreshed when he arrives.

Touch up your make up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh looking. He has just been with a lot of work weary people. His boring day may need a lift.

Prepare the children. Take a few minutes to wash the children's hands and faces (if they are small), comb their hair, and, if necessary, change their clothes. They are his little treasures and he would like to see them playing the part.

Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the house just before your husband arrives. Gather up school books, toys, papers etc. and then dust cloth the tables. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order and it will give you a lift too.

Minimize the noise. Be sure there is no noise from washer, dryer, dishwasher or vacuum. Encourage the children to be quiet. Greet him with a warm smile and be glad to see him.

Don't greet him with complaints or problems. Don't complain if he is late for dinner. Count this as minor compared to what he may have gone through that day.

Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair. Have a cooling drink ready for him. Offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a soft voice. Allow him to relax and unwind. Listen to him. You may have a dozen things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him speak first.

Make the evening his. Never complain if he does not take you out to dinner or to other places of entertainment. Instead try to understand his world and pressure, his need to be home and relaxed.

THE GOAL: try to make your home a place of peace of peace and order where your husband can renew himself in body and spirit.


Jean said...

Ackk1 I'm back - had to go find a ribbon for my hair.

Anonymous said...

I saw this posted somewhere else not too long ago. I still find it amusing.

Trish said...

I'm a flunky. But I do have a ribbon for my hair. One down, lots to go...

Jean said...

I forget where I got this from -

Petra said...

Used to have a friend, who wiped the toddler's nose, and put baby
powder behind the tikes ears so she
would smell nice for daddy. LOLOLOL.....During the years I stayed home with the kiddies, I never
managed to achieve that list, not
even on my best day!!!!!

LauraHinNJ said...

I can remember my mom (married in the 50's) doing some of these things.

How times have changed!